I had wanted to write about something since a long time - Love. This topic is manifested in every movie and drama. Without it a movie or drama is just as incomplete as a plant without leaves. The ones who are in love are not able to explain it and who are not, just wonder what kind of mystery it is. I am here to write something on it. I write on this topic mainly for two of my friends. One is King of kings and other is the Peak. No—no these are not the name of my friends but are the meaning of their name. And is edited by my friend the insuppressible light which is virtually not moving.
A lot of people live around us. Of them some faces we like and some faces we don’t and towards the rest we are indifferent. So, I am going to put up some discussion on face. I have found that a person with long face likes a person with a round face and vice-versa. But this is not universally true but just a relative liking. This means a person with round face tends more to like a long face than another round faced person. This theory is just another thought of mine and not yet fully verified. But u too should be aware of it that I am not in very much contact with one complete kind of human.
So, when we see one person, different types of feelings come into our mind. Obviously some are positively of liking while some are not. When we see people and get attracted towards them, some of us feel like that they are in love with that person. Is this love? Obviously not, it is just affection. Actually the face just matches with the ideal face shape of the person in our mind. Then, what is love? Love is affection with caring where we not only care for that person and but also his/her happiness. We do care about our parents, brothers and sisters and their happiness i.e. we love them. We’ll do everything for their happiness. This is, I consider, love. And we show our love to them by showing our caring and supporting nature towards them. This is also true with the love which we are generally suggested about.
Love has got another name: sacrifice. Love is how much we can give to our loved ones without hoping any returns. And also if u love someone then it doesn’t mean that the person is also in love with u or he/she is not bound to love u as love doesn’t have any relation with exchanging feelings. Some of us think that if they love someone, then that person should love them and be with them. Does u think this a love? Isn’t it just like business or something like that? U love someone for being loved by them. Ha ha ha what a joke. Although I think it is good to be little selfish in love but u just can’t force the person to love u. It is a feeling that comes without knocking at your door. But again one must not be blind in love as neither the person u love is the only person u love in this world nor does love give u the power of breaking human laws.
Now in this world Tajmahal is hailed not only as the greatest symbol of love but also as one of the wonders of the world. But the love of Shahjahan and Mumtaz is not famous as love of Laila-Majnoo, Heer-Ranjha, and Romeo-Juliet etc. Why? Because Shahjahan materialized his love. For his love all he did was cruelty whence he cut the hands of 20,000 workers of Tajmahal in the name of his love so that his materialized love may not be repeated. In my thought his love is not love but a great affection toward his wife since a person in love can not exhibit such cruelty or show off their love.
Earlier I had written about being blind in love. What is that? Sometimes it is heard that someone ate poison, jumped from a high territory, etc thereby committing suicide by some means. But why Is it so? Perhaps either their lover wanted to see the extent of love or they just might have wanted to dump them or some other reason. This is being “blind in love”. If we are in love with anyone or anything, it doesn’t mean that we have to become their slave and have to act on their will or must do what they ask us. Love makes us great ,not a slave or something like that. We don’t need to hear and follow everything that our loved ones ask for or do everything on their will. Rather I feel that we should hear to our heart and do whatever our heart tells us to do so that if anything goes wrong, we have only ourselves to blame. Secondly listening to our heart never leads us to the wrong path and we are never misguided. Hence in love we can do everything for happiness of our loved ones but everything we do must come from our heart and also which must not be biased.
Yeah, I hope I am almost drained now. At this moment I don’t have any more to say on love. However later, if I get any more information/thinking on this topic, I shall try to let u know. Bye—bye, take care and keep smiling…………and lots of luv from me…………………….
---------Santosh kumar Burnwal----------------
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